basically, think of it as attaining enlightenment the buddhist way:
If you pursue it, you will never attain it.
If you do not pursue it, it will come upon you.
It is difficult to forget, or live without, but as you continue with life, you should find that you are not spending as much time obsessing, and will (should) eventually stop thinking of her (or the relationship) as often.
First step would be to read this thread, and then never come back, as it is related :P
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