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Harshaw · 09-26-2003, 10:04 PM

I don't want to get your hopes up. But there is a saying "Drunks and Children, they tell the truth". Its possible that she may have some sort of hidden feelings for you that she keeps pressed pretty far down. It wouldn't be the first time it took alchohol to bring it out.
The big problem as I see it is, you have been friends with this girl for 3 years. It seems like many girls have a window for dating, and once past this window it is hard, very hard to change from friends to dating.
It all kind of depends on if you think you can talk to your friend about this in a non-threatening way. You have a lot of obstacles to over come, so don't get your hopes up and don't try to press her into something.

09-26-2003, 10:04 PM	#4 (permalink)
Harshaw Is mad at you. Location: Bored in Sacramento	I don't want to get your hopes up. But there is a saying "Drunks and Children, they tell the truth". Its possible that she may have some sort of hidden feelings for you that she keeps pressed pretty far down. It wouldn't be the first time it took alchohol to bring it out. The big problem as I see it is, you have been friends with this girl for 3 years. It seems like many girls have a window for dating, and once past this window it is hard, very hard to change from friends to dating. It all kind of depends on if you think you can talk to your friend about this in a non-threatening way. You have a lot of obstacles to over come, so don't get your hopes up and don't try to press her into something. __________________ This too shall pass.