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Originally posted by rogue49
Seriously, play, experiment, enjoy
but listen, feel, watch, taste, smell...use ALL the senses
even that "sixth" sense...you're "feeling" your partner...you've become a part of their pleasure.
Their pleasure is yours.
This is the MOST important aspect to develop.
Techniques are good for a start, but they are not the end.
Like the "ABC's" where you spell out the alphabet on her clit with your tongue (each lady had a different favorite letter. )
But start soft, increase the tension, tease the area, use your fingers at the same time.
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Hear! Hear!
First of all going down on a girl is like an intoxicating drug. This is why it's so important that the chemistry works. The communication between partners is verbal, physical, pheronic, and pheromonal.
I like to start by keeping my hand on my girls belly. Sometimes you can gauge her reactions by how her body undulates. But like I said there is obvious chemical communication going on too.
This is more like an art than it is a clear set of tools in a practice. You have to 'feel' whats the best thing is to do.
Somtimes I lick around the labia before plunging my tongue into the vagina. Sometimes I just make soft circles around the clit. Sometimes I make quick transitions between the different actions. Sometimes the the transitions are smooth and slow. Sometimes there are no transitions... Whatever the specific action, understand that it's really an act of communication.
I really could go on here. But I think you get the point.