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Originally posted by wry1
I've come across a few women like that, and what I normally do is tell them that I had a lot of fun, and give them my number so that they can call me if they're ever in the mood for a second go-around. This allows them to retain the essence of control which they had from the moment they approached me, and also leaves them with an option to exercise that control again at a later date if they so choose.
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If they so choose, they could go after someone else or nobody else. I'm thinking that modern women's lives are so complicated that they really don't need a man around to coordinate schedules with. I mean we (the men) are really a major pain in the ass to put up with. And I'm not saying that because we are mean or have bad breath or anything. I'm saying that because women can be happy in many ways without a man around. Sometimes they just want us for
one thing.
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Originally posted by wry1
Don't go falling "in love" with the one-night stands, man! You know from the get-go how things will turn out....don't pretend you don't....so you shouldn't be shocked, hurt, or anything else when the girl goes about her merry way.
Just try to be everything she wants for the night, and leave her an option later.
....and for God's sake: if you see these women around, be casual about it!
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Thanks for the very good advice but there is just one thing. Most of the time these are NOT one night stands in any traditional sorts of ways. Women today want to have long talks on the phone and in other words: want to sniff me out before any sexual contact occurs. Perhaps they're looking to see if I am married -I'm not sure why they do it.
For the record I've had one night stands in the past. They kinda gross me out a little. In one case, I'm fairly certain that some married woman hooked up with me. I'm also not into the bar scene where this kinda stuff goes on. Yeah, one night stands BLOW.
But you can see that sometimes you can
like someone a little -after having a few long conversations with them. Somehow I feel that after these long talks; if a woman just starts blowing me off -that it's a betrayal of our friendship. You know I'm not complaining because I got some much needed sex out of it -but I am a little disappointed.
The other option of course -is to choose not to have sex with them until a later time.
This does not work. It's actually the surest way to get blown off. Oh man, I should write details here but I start kicking myself when I consider
those amazing women that I turned down sex with -as some sort of 'relationship experiment'.