lol. The funny thing is, I'm a virgin. I've read about a million of these things, and have no basis for an opinion other than the thousands of options presented in these "how to" guides. I have managed to rationalize it down to one thing, however -- hit the clit.
Not sure how I would recommend it all to a woman other than to remind her that the first inch of penis is the most sensitive. Deep throating is cool and all, but it's not much better than hitting the first inch hardcore (pun intended).