Sleepyjack

When i first started this thread i was a little pissed off. Although i believe i started this thread on a wednesday night after my basketball game and here i am again on the wednesday night again ( a few weeks later) after the basketball game, but several hours later. Anyway, i saw them together tonight and also last weekend and they are good together, although i am suprised she did take him back (although there was a sense of inevitability) and I must admit that sometimes i feel a little bit of tension/awkwardness between the two. Also he sometimes is trys too hard, well, i think. But that'll probably dissolve over time, or not. It doens't really effect me though.
He isn't really an asshole, he would've learnt from the mistake and hopefully enver ever does it again to anyone.

I see where you're coming from about poeple wanting to be connected, as this is what this whole thread is about and that its easy to get back with an ex merely for the (false) sense of security and contentment with ones self.

I am not gonna do a vulture move though, i think there is an unconscious pact between friends to stay away from other ex's, well for a reasonable amount of time. I think it was really out of character for him to cheat anyway, so i don't see it happening again. My main gripe was that they were so happy together and he kinda fucked it up without much thought of the consequences.

So in summing up, it wasn't really my intention to ask why girls always go back to the jerk guys, but more so some of the pains that it is to be single. I appreciate (wry1) that you bought that point up, and i agree with you for the most part (don't agree on going after friends ex's).