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I _love_ getting eaten out by my guy and I love sucking him off. A crucial part of our enjoyment tho' is communicating to one another what feels good. It doesn't have to be in a demanding way-just talking about what feels good, body language, moaning, anything that gives the message, *I dig what you're doing, please keep doin' it!*
About some women seeming reluctant to receive oral gratification, some of us buy into the big lie that we are *dirty* down there, no matter how careful we are to stay fresh and well trimmed. Our inner dialogue prevents us from relaxing enuf to really let go and let our partner pleasure us. Trust can be a really big issue for both sexes, and the idea of holding off for a little while getting to know the new partenr is a good one, I think.
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