Dead on anti fishstick.
Happiness can come from some pretty odd places at times.
I do think though to be happy with someone else you first need to be happy with yourself. Relationships are a difficult place to try and work out who you want to be.
Personally I follow the four basic buddhist tenents as a philosophy, not a religion, i find them helpful at times.
If my travels around South East Asia have though me one thing it's that the happiest people i've ever met were Buddhist monks in Vietnam, that says alot.
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