courtjester

RelaX, you're not alone here, I read a lot of posts that involved people feeling "awkward" the first time. That can only make it that much more special/memorable if you ask me. I agree with other posters, don't waste this with an escort or prostiture. Let me get to the real point....look, you're a guy, if you had a childhood like most of the rest of us you have a basic idea of the mechanics that are involved. I have no idea where you're at in your relationship....if you're still at 1st base then I don't suggest jumping from simple marathon make-out sessions to get-naked-and-have-sex time one night on a whim. Take things slow but steady over the course of several weeks/months so that you get to know your way around sexually. If you've ever masturbated or had your GF give you a hand job or blow job, hopefully you know what the eventual outcome is supposed to be (and feel like!) on your end. If your hands have ever wandered down her pants you have an idea what things feel like down there. If they haven't, then let your fingers do the walking and pave the way for bigger and better things. Maybe you've never put on a condom before? Get the GF involved in this...go out and get some and try a few practice runs, or do this alone if you're too uncomfortable. Once both of you get your bearings and feel more prepared, start planning the event....all I'm saying is it can be a real great time of your life and if you guys mean enough to each other to give up your virginity, then you should plan it out together. Or hell, just jump into the sack and get it over with. Regardless, for most people it's unforgettable.