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Originally posted by Johnny Rotten
I think you need to be clear with her about your boundaries are, and get her to tell you straight up about hers. It sounds like a door has been opened for her and she's taking things a little too fast--not taking the potential problems seriously and not giving enough attention to your perspective. Remember that actions speak louder than words, and sometimes people's opinions about sex and relationships can really surprise you, even when you think you know that person.
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couldnt have said it better myself...keeping the lines of communication open in such a situation is key to the surviaval of the relationship...not talking about it and then learning about things that had happened may make the relationship go south.