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Originally posted by vveronica
I had an attorney friend who once said that he never asks a question that he does not know the answer to.
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Now, this is not necessarily the healthiest of thoughts for a relationship, but it's certainly one I can get behind. It seems sneaky, but you could be in for a larger shock than you think if you don't know the situation. You still shouldn't be confrontational; you should still go into your discussion with an open mind; you should simply have a better idea of what's going on first, I think.
Hiring a P.I. would ruin whatever trust she thinks you have in her. If you trust the friends, go to them and ask them. Let them know that you want to talk with her about things, but that you don't want to get blindsided by anything. They're married, and should understand.