When I first start seeing a girl, I prefer to keep things slow, I'll make time for her, but not at the expense of existing friendships. I've had friends that seemed to fall of the face of the earth after meeting a girl, only to resurface months later when the girl is gone. I'll never cancel plans with a girlfriend to hang out with friends or vice versa. One of the bigger things I look for in a serious relationship is how well we get along with each other's friends, it makes stuff like this easier to deal with.
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