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It's usually four months for every year of the relationship. Meaning, she'll need four months before she's actually cleared her head. I know you're very eager to have a relationship with her, and we've all felt that yearning before, but if you can wait at least a couple more months, the relationship could last for a very long time. It's too bad you couldn't have run into her a couple months from now, because the process is getting started sooner than it usually should, but you can ease a potentially awkward trasition by taking things nice and slow. If she feels about you the way you feel about her, then she'll probably see the importance of that as well.
And talk to her about all this, when it becomes a full-fledged, non-platonic relationship.
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