I have been told by my close female friends that I am the sweetest guy that they know...(ok not trying to pat myself on the back here, just answering the question honestly) so I guess I flirt by paying attention and looking into her eyes and smiling and laughing a lot. I totally engage myself into our conversation (which sometimes leads me to be caught up in three hour conversations with super hot and super sweet girls that I totally think I'm gonna hook up with and then they tell me they're engaged...but that's a story for another time)
If I know the girl, though, and I know a little bit about her, I totally change my tune. Chances are they already know that I'm a pretty nice guy, so I feel like I can be a little bit bolder and more aggressive, so I tend to be really sarcastic with them, but still in a sweet endearing way, so they know that I'm just playing with them. It seems to work really well for some reason...
I have a habit of dating girls that I am good friends with first, and a friend of mine once told me "Dude, I can totally tell when you REALLY like a girl, because you act like suc a sarcastic prick around her..." It's a thing I have, I guess...
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