The problem with dancing (the kind you see in clubs, not specialized forms like waltz or popping) is that there's no one good way to do it. Why is that bad? Well, with most activities, you know what characterizes what's GOOD and what AIN'T. But with dancing some people just seem to do it better than others, for no discernable or consistent reason.
Frequent clubs with your friends and watch strangers dance. Pick it apart in your head, and get a sense of what YOU ideally want to look like. Then work toward that.
Some things to consider: speed, apparent ease, sexy and slinky vs. rhythmic, fluidity of motion, leg movement, arm movement, head movement, hips hips hips and how much you want to use them. Big movements are better than little, restrained ones. Restraint, in large, is something you should try to forego, as long as you don't look sloppy doing it... which is kind of the crux of the problem. And smile. No one likes a disaffected, bored dancer. Make eye contact. Having fun is sexy as fuck.
Good luck, let us know how it goes!
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