Funny.. I personally would say brains, or at least wit, and personality. Trouble is, I cannot see your personality from across the room. Something has to attract you in the first place. As for me, I am not the best looking guy in the world, I am fat. (let's be real, I know what the heck I look like every morning when I get up.) I've been married more than 10 years, but still have little shortage of female friends, and fairly regular offers... why? Like I told my wife, regardless of what the initial reaction of a person is, wit, charm, and humour tend to be rather disarming. The good lord knows I've been with lovely ladies, and some rather large, and some less attractive than you'd find on the titty board, and it was all good. While I love to look at the nakedness of a "perfect" form, I love the intimacy with an intelligent, caring, human far far more.
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