Nope, in the relationships I've had in the past,
the lady came first.
Maybe this is why I'm still single, they took me for granted.
Who knows?
But this is my nature, and I'm not going to change.
However, I would think that the lady I was with would allow me some "me" time with my friends,
as I would do for her, there is a balance.
Each person also has their own life, you don't want to smother each other,
then you are asking for a backlash & resentment.
But if it came down to give & take, I would prefer to spend time with her.
But that's just me, each person is different, and how others react is different too.
A couple has too experiment how much give & take, with time, over time.
It's a dance you have to find the rhythm with, and your partner will learn to flow with you.
If you are uncomfortable with it, just bring it up.
It's part of the communcation of a couple.
Maybe he doesn't realize he's not meeting your needs of time.
This will allow him to adjust back to a sharing of time that you're both comfortable with.
I've never been one to let sleeping dogs lie, I say what's on my mind.
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