Motdaskasha is right on -- it is time to develop a marriage/sexual contract with your wife. Open up discussion. Ask what she wants and expects and share what you want and expect. You've only been married a year and the door has already been open for pologomy. The task now is to define what that means in your marriage.
There are a lot of pologomy web sites out there that give suggestions on how to make the whole thing work in marriage. I know couples who are very secure with each other and date outside the marriage -- and in. They make it work because they have open communication which builds trust. Good luck!
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