I think that you should just bring it up to her in a way that you think wouldn't upset her (I know that's probably easier said than done.) to find out what she has really been doing over there. Tell her that your open to the threesomes or foursomes, but your not ok with her going off with others and having the threesomes with them and leaving you out. I always fantisize about a threesome with my husband (however I could NEVER do it with anyone I know) but I would be pissed if he were out doing it with another couple and not only didn't tell me, but didn't include me either. Basically he would be cheating on me.
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