Last month my fiance suprised me with "Aria's Decadent Lovebird". You can set the vibrating intensity and even has different pulse options. I love it!
Also there are straps you can add on to wear it if you like. Although there is no penetration, I usually have him finger or use a dildo if I'm in the mood for more. =) It's the best toy I've used so far, but I'm still looking
