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Originally posted by novacainex
i've wanted to try this with my girlfriend for a while. We've done everything conventional and both likedo try new things but she is afraid it will make her too loose. I've gotten 4 fingers in no problem and know i could've gotten the thumb in but she didn;t want to. Oh well maybe in the future.
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Originally posted by legolas
If youwant to fist then you have to stretch her out... that area doesn't just stretch though, it breaks. See the backdoor gets big and small and streches but the front passage can only rip so once it gets big it stays that way. If you want just keep trying and eventually it will be big enough.
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I've been to a vaginal fisting seminar and even witnessed a live demonstration. Two Sexologists (Ph.D.) assured the class that the vagina will stretch back in a matter of hours.
As for knowing if your fist can fit in her vagina, best way to determine this is to go to an OBGYN. Ask them to measure the distance from the pelvic bone to the coccyx. (They have tools to measure these things for pregnancy to know if the baby's head will pass through without intervention.) If your fist is within that range, it's just a matter of maneuvering your fist properly. If your fist is larger in diameter/width than her pelvic bone to coccyx, I would not recommend trying fisting as you could puncture her vagina or rectum on the coccyx.
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Originally posted by legolas
that area doesn't just stretch though, it breaks.
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The vagina is a naturally elastic, it will eventually return back to normal. The most damage a vagina will get from fisting are small (read: nearly microscopic) scratches and tear from the fist, but I'll let you in on a secret: Sex makes the same kind of tears if you do it long enough. Wearing a glove will reduce the amount of scratches and scrapes.
Lots of lube. Trim your finger nails. Use gloves (less friction==longer time to play). Go slow, but if you're going to do it, you need to do all the stretching (it's a slow process) within the same evening otherwise the effort will go to waste. This may be obvious, but there are only two ways a fist will go into a vagina, palm up and down. There's a little bit of a rotating movement when you're fitting the thumb in. It doesn't just go straight in. You start out with your palm facing to the left or right (that will determine if you end up palm up or down). If I could remember more detail from the lecture, I'd tell you the "trick" because there is apparently a trick to fitting the thumb in.
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