I'm with skysooner. Don't assume infidelity without decent reason (that's just rude). What she is doing is inconsiderate, but not so horrible as to just ditch her. It sounds like she spontaneously decided to stay longer than expected, simply because she can. Hell, if I had the opportunity to stay near Yosemite or Sequoia for an extended amount of time, for cheap or free, and I had no immediate worries (bills, work, etc.) I'd fucking snatch up that chance in a split second. If you've ever been to Yosemite or Sequoia, I'm sure you'd understand what I mean. When she comes back, and I think she will, I'd suggest trying to gently communicate to her how if she wants to be in a relationship with you, she needs to understand that you require more consideration/communication/warning in the future. (e.g. Don't rip into her when she gets home.)
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