My parents divorced 7 years ago -- I was 34 years old and very capable of dealing with it.
The best advice I can give you is what Lurkette already said:
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Some stuff to watch for, though, is being put in the middle. Don't let them do that to you. If they have something to say to each other, make them say it. Refuse to listen to them dish shit on each other. Don't you play them off each other, either. If you have younger siblings, make sure they know it's not their fault, and make sure they have someone to talk to about it, preferably someone not in the family.
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I would avoid being put in the middle by saying, "I love you and I love my other parent too. I just can't listen to you trash my mom/dad. Thanks for understanding."
It worked. I have a great relationship with both parents and my dad's girlfriend, as a result.
Best of luck to you!