The key to all things is communication. It all begins and ends right there. Not superfluous chit-chat, but real, definitions and explanations of definitions. It requires actively listening to another person and not interpreting or assuming you know what the other means. To put aside your own bias and actually ask a person what they mean, at the risk of appearing naiive, is as honest as a person can get. Try it. Try asking a girl to explain things to you that you do not understand. And do not be afraid to question more thoroughly the answers you get. It is at once flattering and fulfilling. Why leave things open to misinterpretation when you can have the answer and clarity, too?
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"That's it! They've got the cuffs on him, he's IN the car!"
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