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Originally posted by mew
1. How fat is fat?
2. Diet suggestions?(atkins is not my ideal though..too much meat :P)Preferably for the veggie lover-
Oh and heres another for you all..
3. Would you tell your other half that their getting fat(if they were)?
4. Would you want your lover to tell you that you were getting chunky?
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1) fat to me is when i start feeling uncomfortable just sitting or walking around (typically when i've put on about 15-20). that's when i know that i need to cut back on the donuts a bit.......
2) you can do atkins with cheese & tofu, if you want. it is clearly what works fastest, but i think just not having dessert & working out like a fiend is probably a lot healthier.
3) "getting fat"? no. maybe i would tell her that she just doesn't look comfortable in that outfit anymore.......(HINT!).
4) if it's bothering them, yeah. the thing is, you've kind of got an implied deal when you hook up with someone that this is how you look & feel. when that starts to slip, it's kind of a bait & switch, i think. i already know when i'm getting too big, so a gentle verbal push from the wife just helps to light a fire under my ass to lose the pounds.........which ends up making me feel better anyway.