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wry1 · 09-17-2003, 08:39 PM

There is something truly disfunctional about a relationship where one member may just take off with nothing more than a , "hey, I'm gone." If you haven't heard from her more than once in almost two weeks, make sure she's all right - I'd say try her parents if need be - and then dump her inconsiderate ass!

I can agree with what erion wrote, and that from time to time it is necessary to sort things out and that getting away from it all can help....but this is way beyond anything that someone (supposedly) in a relationship would be doing to their partner. You don't just vacate your life on 8 hours advance notice - take me at my word on this; I've done a rapid about-face once before in my life - if you're looking to clear your head. You do this if you're looking to get away in a more permanent manner.

You have been abandoned. The only questions remaining are whether or not she comes back to you....and if she does will you take her back?

09-17-2003, 08:39 PM	#17 (permalink)
wry1 Loser Location: Far too far from my Angel....	There is something truly disfunctional about a relationship where one member may just take off with nothing more than a , "hey, I'm gone." If you haven't heard from her more than once in almost two weeks, make sure she's all right - I'd say try her parents if need be - and then dump her inconsiderate ass! I can agree with what erion wrote, and that from time to time it is necessary to sort things out and that getting away from it all can help....but this is way beyond anything that someone (supposedly) in a relationship would be doing to their partner. You don't just vacate your life on 8 hours advance notice - take me at my word on this; I've done a rapid about-face once before in my life - if you're looking to clear your head. You do this if you're looking to get away in a more permanent manner. You have been abandoned. The only questions remaining are whether or not she comes back to you....and if she does will you take her back? Last edited by wry1; 09-17-2003 at 08:41 PM..