Alpha phi was my first and I didn't give him a bj till quite a while after we were having sex even though he always did me...I don't know why I didn't him ....I guess I just wasn't comfortable with it....He finally got me to try it...and I loved it....he told me he couldn't get off that way....sure as hell surprised me when he did one time ...surprised him too....now he can get off with oral all the time.....he says that he finally did because I actually cared enough to keep trying and I tried different techniques.....he says I'm the best....I'm quite proud of that....Now I much prefer to give....not that I don't like to get it...I just prefer to get off with him in me
