when you hit 130, then be concerned.
your weight doesn't say anything about being fat, if you look in the mirror and you think you look fat, then do something to look how you want. if your clothes no longer fit right, definatly do something (it's cheaper than buying a new wardrobe). don't "diet." try to get a bit of exercise in, or park further away in parking lots, take the stairs, etc if you don't have time to exercise. cut back on the alcohol and maybe watch what you eat a bit.
i'd tell my other half if i had another half that she was getting chunky. i'm a fatass but losing it and since health and exercise has become important to me, i'd hope she'd feel the same way. or at least humor me.
and she should definatly tell me if i'm getting fatter. cause that's unacceptable to me.
at 110, unless your a midget... err... sorry, vertically challenged, you aren't fat.