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mew · 09-16-2003, 07:11 PM

This may seem a little confusing..but bear with me svp.

Im a little confused myself...When my bf and I started going out, we ended up talking about being open with eachother. I asked him the loaded question, but as a serious one: If I got fat would you tell me?
And to my surprise he said he would, which I was actually greatful for, because that would mean he would be honest with me and be concerned for my weight.
My problem is that recently he told me basically Im fat, but I went to this website: www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm , that tells you an approxamation to your weight status according to height and weight(pretty good site), and it tells me that im normal. Ive read the "What does this all mean " link and it doesnt exactly calculate muscle and whatnot, but it gives me a general idea. Im 5'2 and 110lbs (used to be 97 lbs) and its hard for me to be on a diet due to my Hectic schedule...
So my questions for you all is:
1. How fat is fat?
2. Diet suggestions?(atkins is not my ideal though..too much meat :P)Preferably for the veggie lover-
Oh and heres another for you all..
3. Would you tell your other half that their getting fat(if they were)?
4. Would you want your lover to tell you that you were getting chunky?

Thanks guys!

09-16-2003, 07:11 PM	#1 (permalink)
mew Psycho Location: Canada	How fat is fat? This may seem a little confusing..but bear with me svp. Im a little confused myself...When my bf and I started going out, we ended up talking about being open with eachother. I asked him the loaded question, but as a serious one: If I got fat would you tell me? And to my surprise he said he would, which I was actually greatful for, because that would mean he would be honest with me and be concerned for my weight. My problem is that recently he told me basically Im fat, but I went to this website: www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm , that tells you an approxamation to your weight status according to height and weight(pretty good site), and it tells me that im normal. Ive read the "What does this all mean " link and it doesnt exactly calculate muscle and whatnot, but it gives me a general idea. Im 5'2 and 110lbs (used to be 97 lbs) and its hard for me to be on a diet due to my Hectic schedule... So my questions for you all is: 1. How fat is fat? 2. Diet suggestions?(atkins is not my ideal though..too much meat :P)Preferably for the veggie lover- Oh and heres another for you all.. 3. Would you tell your other half that their getting fat(if they were)? 4. Would you want your lover to tell you that you were getting chunky? Thanks guys!