When you're at clubs you can pick up what other people are doing, and then practice at home. turn on the stereo and move. You're not a good dancer because you've not spent a lot of time doing it, so your not used to coordinating your body in that manner.
Also, if you're still in school, see if there are any dance classes or clubs that you can take/join. i took a one credit swing dance last fall, and it was great. and i'm a horrible dancer. it went slow enough that i could pick everything up, but fast enough for us not to get bored. might be worth checking out.
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