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If she's indicated she wants no contact, then do your best to follow her wishes. I know you have needs, too. You have to find a semi-happy medium. If all you're looking for is medical information, then I'd suggest a letter, addressed to HER asking for a simple response on her health and your biological father's health. (If they have any history of lung/heart disease, etc.)
If you're looking to speak with her for emotional reasons, then I'd suggest a letter asking for a short meeting. Tell her that you don't want a commitment, but you'd like to at least have lunch - for closure. If she doesn't respond to the letter, then I'd tell you she's not worth thinking about ever again.
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