Thanks a million for everyone's advice.
I've decided to do a few things:
- Quit masturbating (and getting hand jobs) for a long time. I'm talking no more this whole year.
- I'm going to explain all this to my girlfriend.
- No more porn. I'm going to try and associate orgasm with sex, not with masturbation.
Averette - I checked out Askmen and I found his page here
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/92_love_tip.html and I'm searching for more pages like that.
I'm going to see how this goes until the end of the year, if no result then I'm going to see a doctor about it. I see Red|ine has the same problem in his thread up there. I think people here are right, I've linked pleasure with porn or masturbation, and not with real-life sex.
Thanks everyone a million times