I consider myself bi, but to be honest, I haven't actually done anything with a girl. Right now, I'm in a monogamous relationship with a boy. He is comfortable with my sexuality (we check out girls together, and talk about it regularly), but is unwilling to let me do anything with a chic while with him. We've had extensive conversations about it, and though he seems to understand that I am still attracted to girls, and feel the urge to be with one, he believes that me having sex with a girl would be cheating on him just as much as if I slept with another guy. I respect this, though I am disappointed. It's really hard to explain to someone that you love that you feel unfulfilled because they are not both a girl and a guy (though I'm not interested in having sex with a transexual). For more on my dilemma, refer to my post in "women seducing women."
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