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Originally posted by Garcon
My problem is that I often find myself very aroussed late at night and she is often too tired to have sex. When this happens, I often end up masturbating, usually with some porn, and always by myself.
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I do this.
Look at it this way. If you didn't you'd have trouble sleeping as you'd be all wound up due to not having released.
Having a release on the other hand releases chemicals which help you sleep. Hence the reason some men fall straight asleep after sex.
I'm sure your g/f would rather you get a good nights sleep than be grumpy due to lack of sleep.
People have different arrousal cycles. Their methods where you can get them to sync. I'm no sex therapist so won't advise any further on on how to accomplish that.
Unfortunately some of that is differences in the sexes (gods twisted sense of humour again). Men are most sexualy primed first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Women generally aren't.
Hey gals perhaps you could clue us into what times of day you a generally most arroused and we can see if there is a pattern?