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Originally posted by stingc
How does that happen? The closest I could think of is a guy making comments about who (eg celebrities) he finds attractive, and the girl noticing a correlation. If that's it, it doesn't mean anything.
These types of discussions give general preferences. There are so many little indescribable details about a person that make up their overall attractiveness. There's no mental checklist that we use to judge someone! Also, the most important details are the mental ones. A really fun, interesting girl will look knock-out gorgeous to anyone who knows her well enough, even if she looks average to strangers. Guys have a stereotype of being much more shallow than we actually are.
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If his neck swivels every time he see's his prefered type in the street,if he says things like"damn,those pants must be painted on" aloud in your prescence when a woman of his prefered type walks by,if he generally makes love to you only with the lights out
if he gives you compliments but then turns the compliment to crap with qualifers. When you find yourself wishing he'd not compliement you at all and no matter what you do about your appearance you'll never measure up.This type is pretty good about doing a number on your self esteem but curiously they then get mad at you for not thinking highly of yourself.
I guess I don't get it,there's nothing wrong with liking certain physical attributes.If a man likes a certain type so much why not stay single till a woman of that type comes along rather than hooking up with a woman of another type and letting her know she doesn't make the grade?