For years, I was with the right person but didn't completely realize it. It took us going to the brink of separating during a difficult time in our marriage that we really realized what we meant to each other. We vowed never to let that happen to us again, and now we reaffirm each other every chance we get. Is it totally perfect all of the time. No, it is not, but it is just about perfect 95% of the time and that is better than most people will ever have.
It takes time, the right person and hard work to reach a stage such as this. It just doesn't magically happen, and you have to really like yourself (not in an arrogant cocky way but in the I'm good as I am kind of way) for it to happen.
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