the whole seat up/seat down thing is so petty. i know some households that always keep the lid down afterwards and i don't mind either way what position the toilet is in. unfortunately, i have fallen in a couple times but that was long ago and i've learned now.
so the up/down thing doesnt bother me at all. now the toilet paper on the other hand.... has to be put on the RIGHT way.. with the roll of paper dispensing at the front.