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motdakasha · 09-06-2003, 08:27 PM

I advise:
-- Talking to her.
-- Not acting upon what you'd like to do (be with her in some other way than a friend).

1. You're married with children.
2. Age gaps *rarely* work.
3. Mid-life crisis type thing.
4. Don't mix business with pleasure.

1. She is probably on the lookout for a rebound whether she realizes it or not.
2. You are like the whole forbidden fruit kind of thing.
3. You've got experience.

If it's true that you don't want to fool around until things are settled with your wife, then tell her how you feel but why you won't do anything now. Ask for contact info or something. Then, once you figure out how you want to deal with your wife and children, and once she's no longer working with you, maybe consider doing something with her. Assuming she's truly interested in you. Basically, I think you should keep your home as a top priority, figure that stuff out first, then deal with your feelings for her afterward.

09-06-2003, 08:27 PM	#30 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	I advise: -- Talking to her. -- Not acting upon what you'd like to do (be with her in some other way than a friend). 1. You're married with children. 2. Age gaps rarely work. 3. Mid-life crisis type thing. 4. Don't mix business with pleasure. 1. She is probably on the lookout for a rebound whether she realizes it or not. 2. You are like the whole forbidden fruit kind of thing. 3. You've got experience. If it's true that you don't want to fool around until things are settled with your wife, then tell her how you feel but why you won't do anything now. Ask for contact info or something. Then, once you figure out how you want to deal with your wife and children, and once she's no longer working with you, maybe consider doing something with her. Assuming she's truly interested in you. Basically, I think you should keep your home as a top priority, figure that stuff out first, then deal with your feelings for her afterward. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)