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I find it easier to talk to other women when I have a girlfriend (or in my case wife). I'm not so focused on looking stupid when there is really nothing to lose. I have come to a conclusion through this that I was a fool to ever take seriously any rejection/good things that happened to me in bars. As guys, we are always so busy trying to create an image that we just forget to talk. Some women are looking for that image (in the bar scene) while others just want to get to know the person. Being free and easy with conversation is an easy way to determine that (particuarly when you have no pressure on you).
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