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Can you be best friends? Yes -- but doesn't that mean your wife is not your best friend. And shouldn't she be your best friend? This woman sounds very nice and I believe she can be a good friend. I also believe that the sexual tension will go away if you introduce her to your wife and hang out together. Lebell has female friends and they are no threat to me -- but mostly because he is open about them. One of the woman friends calls him her best friend; but we "hang" out together as well and I trust everything is above board. Opening up to your wife, sharing your thoughts and your friendship, could be all you need.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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