Craven - It sounds like your position is really, really similar to mine. It's reassuring to know that I'm not in this boat alone, or my girlfriend and I aren't in this boat alone, rather. I see what you're saying about it being unnatural for each of us to act more or less needy. Sorry to hear your relationship didn't turn out, I suppose I have doubts about my relationship too since it is an issue that comes up often, once a week or more on average. We're both still young, still in university, so I guess as long as I think we can make it work, if not forever then for a long time, then I'll still try. And when I said it was funny I think I wasn't serious, I was really devastated about it and I thought it was ironic that my day could start out so well and end up so badly.
But I've been talking to her again tonight and things are progressing slowly but surely... I've been explaining what I've been saying here. I think some things will be OK.
