May not be that 'funny' that it truned to shit on the day of your test. That has to be a bit stressful, even in the best of situations. She probably needed more reassurance from you than you would normally provide. I don't think the two of you will find a happy medium where her requirements will be easily met by you. Although you might be able to both agree that there isn't a lot either of you can do about it and accept it as it is. I was in a relationship similar to yours. I wasn't comfortable with giving up as much of myself as she wanted. Had nothing to do with my feelings. It was unnatural for me to be so giving and unnatural for her to be less needy. We tried, but in the end it didn't work. The needy part manifested itself in several other areas beyond PDA. Had nothing to do with our feelings for each other. Which made it all that much harder.
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