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motdakasha · 09-02-2003, 08:28 PM

I'm okay with PDA if it's subtle and not intrusive or tacky to other people.

See how things play out over the next two months. Make a mental note of her behavior pre-time apart, during time apart, and if there is a post time apart. If she goes back to pre-time apart unchanged, then she's made no real effort to overcome her insecurities. From there you can choose to be a good guy or bad guy. You can opt to coddle her until she gets over her insecurities or you can leave her if you don't have the patience to try to help someone who probably doesn't want it.

I think what you've done so far have been good choices. Let us know how things turn out.

09-02-2003, 08:28 PM	#6 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	I'm okay with PDA if it's subtle and not intrusive or tacky to other people. See how things play out over the next two months. Make a mental note of her behavior pre-time apart, during time apart, and if there is a post time apart. If she goes back to pre-time apart unchanged, then she's made no real effort to overcome her insecurities. From there you can choose to be a good guy or bad guy. You can opt to coddle her until she gets over her insecurities or you can leave her if you don't have the patience to try to help someone who probably doesn't want it. I think what you've done so far have been good choices. Let us know how things turn out. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.) Last edited by motdakasha; 09-02-2003 at 08:31 PM..