It is not trivial if you are feeling uncomfortable. I agree with World's King that it sounds like she may some attachment issues. It also sounds like you need your space. Maybe it is time to see a counselor together. Having an "outsider" and professional help you process together could take aways some of the sting and help address the real issue.
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