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sexymama · 09-01-2003, 08:06 PM

I think the above advice is great. Remember, your parents are acting out of fear -- they want the BEST for you and are afraid she is not. They are also afraid of loosing their "little boy."

Speaking from experience, there are ways to help your girlfriend feel better. You may want to start by talking with her. REally hear her feelings! Don't defend your parents actions but let her know that although your parents are important to you that you make your own decisions. If/When your parents put her down, stick up for her in a very polite manner. If your parents don't want her around, fine, leave with her. Show her through your actions that you will be by her side no matter what happens. A man "defending" his "woman" can be a real turn on!

09-01-2003, 08:06 PM	#11 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	I think the above advice is great. Remember, your parents are acting out of fear -- they want the BEST for you and are afraid she is not. They are also afraid of loosing their "little boy." Speaking from experience, there are ways to help your girlfriend feel better. You may want to start by talking with her. REally hear her feelings! Don't defend your parents actions but let her know that although your parents are important to you that you make your own decisions. If/When your parents put her down, stick up for her in a very polite manner. If your parents don't want her around, fine, leave with her. Show her through your actions that you will be by her side no matter what happens. A man "defending" his "woman" can be a real turn on! __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection. Last edited by sexymama; 09-01-2003 at 08:08 PM..