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i used to be a semi-hated girlfriend. i mean, i alwasy got that impression. but the thing is i just kinda ignored them for a long time (a year or so) and my bf and i would hang out atmy house and not his. and then as time passed they became a lot nicer to me. i think it was just that when they saw me being a big part of their son's life they were scared i would hurt him or something. i had to realise that it wasn't me they hated, it was letting go of their son. and they had to realise that i loved him and i wasn't going away. now i still don't really like his parents all the time, but they have their moments, and we're getting there. i mean if you guys are mean to be together you'll get through it. i know that that's cold comfort now though. just try to reassure her that no matter what your parents think you really love and care for her and that is what's important. avoid your parents when you're haning out with her if possible. i think talking to your parents might help things too. good luck and keep us posted. i just thought you might like to know it's possible to pull through it.
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