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well i am meaning that if they *do* do it for provocative reasons then ask later why - then yes, it is their fault
no its not their fualt they got raped, no its not their fault they got catcalls, but if they do it for provocative reasons then later cry back at it, then thats just plain stupid
this mainly ties in hand with the anti-bandwagon feelings i have - because there are many many who do it thinking its going to get a guy or whatever, (yeah tis a bad example but i cant think up anything good right now) and instead get the catcalls and get all pissed and stuff.
in the end its self esteem
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