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We don't call for the same reason women never give the real reason for a breakup - a little white lie is easier for both parties involved than telling the truth. We can't handle the truth. None of us - male or female.
Don't you agree it would be awkward to have a conversation like this at the end of the date?:
You: "I had a great time - I hope we can do this again real soon."
Him: "Sorry, babe - but your nose is a little crooked, you could lose a few pounds, and you never even offered me so much as a handjob. I think I can do a lot better by the weekend. Have a nice life."
It's just so much easier to say, "Sure - I'll call you."
I'm not saying it's right - I'm just saying that's the way it is.
If you want to get to the truth, you'll have to call him and ask for the truth - tell him it's rude to leave someone hanging like that, and you'd like to know the reason he never called. He still may not tell you, though.
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If you want to avoid 95% of internet spelling errors:
"If your ridiculous pants are too loose, you're definitely going to lose them. Tell your two loser friends over there that they're going to lose theirs, too."
It won't hurt your fashion sense, either.
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