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Originally posted by raeanna74
Then just don't say your going to call. I've had guys ask me out and I tell them outright that I'm not interested. I say it in the most polite way possible but at least they're not left hanging wondering if there was something they said wrong or what happened to me. I think it's rude to say you'll do ANYTHING and then not follow through.
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Exactly!!! There was one time about a year ago when I was talking to a guy out in a bar and when I was ready to leave he asked for my number. I politely told him that I really wasn't interested, but that I had a good time talking to him that night.
I know guys who get girls numbers just to say they got the number. An ego boost, I guess. And so you can boast to your buddies. It's incredibly lame.
Oh, in the case where a girl will give a guy her number, and then he doesn't call. I won't fault the guy in this case. He didn't ask for the number. He could always turn it down, I guess. But I've only given out my number when A) the guy asked for it and B) I was actually interested in him.
I think the fact that this guy gave me his number says a lot too... Most guys (that I know of) do not do this. The message I got might have been a fluke. All this stuff just gives me a headache
