k, I'm trying to understand this.
In my understanding, I'm going to try to use an example, please tell me if I'm wrong or modify it so it's right...
One of your gripes is that lets say you are going to a resturant, as a male, and you're told that you are going to have to wait. An attractive female comes into the same resturant, and she says she doesn't have a reservation, so in theory, she should have to wait longer then you. So she starts flirting with the guy behind the counter to get a table before you and she gets it. Now, later on, let's say you work with said female she starts complaining that she hates being viewed as a sex toy.
It's a horrible example, but that's about the only thing I got from one of the things you've said...
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